Something different, maybe understanding our spouses is this easy.
I think that understanding our spouse would be a h*ll of a lot easier if we would not try to see them through our perspective and try to put ourselves into their shoes. They are struggling with this whole situation just as we are. But, it is easy to feel the victim and say oh if only they would pull their heads out.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”