Gosh, no, FD. Holding back--never. Believe you me, I've moved on in many, many ways. More than I ever thought I would. I do think H will talk further though; gut feeling. But not yet; he has no answers to give me right now and I know that.
Keeping, you're right. Your H made his bed. I am sure he is aware it is not all that he thought it would be when he left. The pride issue becomes so huge for them. I know it also did for my H.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
