Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

I had a major screwup today. I made an excuse to go over to my wife's house to borrow something I needed.

When I got there I was hoping she would want to talk to me but it was obvious she didn't. Instead of just leaving I tried talking to her and I really made her angry.

To make things worse I panicked and kept at it, apologizing and asking her if everything was okay. I finally left, but it was obvious that I had set her feelings for me way back even though she said everything was okay just so I would leave.

I'm very upset with myself since I hadn't behaved this way for weeks. I know there are times she just doesn't want to talk and I should leave, but this time for some reason I panicked and acted totally irrational.

I just hope our relationship can recover from this setback and that I can figure out some way to never panic again.

Svejk