Hugs to you. I am sorry you are getting a D. I will say a prayer for you tonight that this all goes as easily as possible (ridiculous, as this isn't easy AT ALL, I know). I do think many of these men speed down the track due to pride issues, and although they may have moments of clarity, they do not let on, so as to not look weak to any of us.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
