Just getting started peicing it back together 2

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I think you are right about stringing me along. I am going to try and stay in control here because of that reason. We have a divorce hearing on the 30th of this month so I guess that would be the deadline you are talking about. She and her lawyer set this up the end of June and I was just now served with it so I guess the court system is as slow as they say. Her and her lawyer stated that they wanted the provisional order that was set last year in november to be reinstated but my lawyer says there is no reason it can't all be settled by the 30th. That is what my lawyer and I are going to try and accomplish. I have already bought her a brand new home and gave her some cash to get moved in and she is going to get some more. How much more she gets depends on how fast she wants this to be over. In Indiana my lawyer tells me it is cut and dry 50/50 so the judge will end up awarding her what we have already offered to get it over sooner, but her lawyer advised her to go for more money. What is funny about that is that he had all of the personal finacial statements from the last 5years but for some reason he thinks we have more than what we have. My lawyer tells me not to get upset about any of the money stuff because if her and I can not agree on it the judge will look at the finacials and what it is, is what it is.