thanks
I am having a particularly difficult day today. My 28th wedding anniversary is 6 days away. I thought I had done a good job of detaching but now... I am not so sure. I feel like so much of the choice has been taken away from me. I am sending my h a card to mark our anniversary. It says: "You and I are connected in a way that goes...beyond romance, beyond freindship, beyond what we've ever had before... We're soul mates. I can't explain it. I just feel it."

I also wrote a note DearXXX I wanted to acknowledge this, our 28th and final wedding anniversary. It has certainly been quite a journey that we have shared from teenagehood ( can you remember the kids we once were) to where we each find ourselves today. Like you, I would not trade a single moment of it for anything in the world. Thank you for all the precious memories, and for two of the most incredible gifts a mother couold wish for, our children. I wish you all the happiness you can handle. With much love and friendship, love always XXXx

I have no expectations for sending this save that I want to mark the day and I do thank him for the gifts and sincerely wish him much happiness.