Sex and Validation

[Burgbud]

I MB every day, most days several times. Heck, easily 99% of the sex I have, my wife isn't even present.

Note that I didn't suggest you simply try masturbating.

Not sure what the point is here though.

The point is, do you need porn and/or fantasy to distract you from the feelings that arise from what you're doing? Or can you embrace those feelings and enjoy mb for its own sake; not just for the release at the end?

Desire is the goal.

Desire is the goal only if you need validation.

Even if we say that sex is NOT being used for validation, the feeling of having passionate sex with a truly desirous women is impossible to replicate in any other way.

Only because you crave the feeling of being desired. If you didn't, then having connected sex with a woman who fully occupies her sexuality would still be one of the easiest ways to get an incredibly wonderful feeling, but it wouldn't be the end-all-be-all your mind is making it out to be. You'd then be open to dozens of other ways to make yourself happy. You'd be well on your way to becoming a man who possesses himself and that feels significantly better than the greatest sex in the world.

So what would MB do?

Done with full consciousness, it's a means of self-validation.