Sigh, respect. Something I don't see either. That hurts a lot. It hurts that OW would do this to me as well (since we were friends), it hurts they do this in front of my kids. I am so sorry for you and the lake. I know..I know...
What did the emails say? How did he respond?
Potty training huh? Well, you'll see the proud looks on their faces soon enough and know, yet again, you are the rock, the one they will turn to when needed.
I will try to come back tonight (hard for me when I'm home), but if I don't, I hope you get some good downtime and can sleep a bit.