Sorry if you've made this clear elsewhere, but do you mean that literally or that if he is you won't be? If the latter, it sounds like you've got clarity there.
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
(WTF is wrong with me?)
Absolutely nothing. It sounds like this was an emotional conversation, and that your patience is at an end right now.
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
asked her point blank what do you think would happen if, instead of confiding in other people, we'd confide in each other first. That I have a good feeling and a rock solid belief that we'd be able to reconnect. She was crying a little.
Did she have anything to say about your question?
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
Wasn't entirely calm in the beginning, hung up on her once after calling her something to the effect of a liar and cheater and someone I'd be better off without. Dishonest or something. Said she needed to sleep elsewhere.
You spoke in anger, and you were honest. Was this intended as a kick in the pants or did you lose it?
I'm so sorry you're having a hard time. This is all awful. Take care of yourself, and your daughter. Good luck. I'm thinking about you.