Actually, I don't really wonder what I saw in OM. It's pretty obvious to me. He was attractive and adventurous, and an escape from who I was.
It's hard to say what is real in the mind of a man living in fantasy. All I can say is, go with your gut. If he seems sincere to you, then quite possibly he is, even if he is confused and lost. She will attempt to keep him that way as long as possible, but it doesn't last forever.
The grass may be greener, but then again, it may also be astroturf. ~Amy C Brown