Try & keep what you said a while back in mind Heimlich;
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It'd almost be a relief to know that she was seing OM still.
It's totally understandable that you feel you have hit your limit after your newest discovery.
From what I've read on other's threads & different sites, only about 10% of WAS's ultimately end up with the OP. In fact, it's more common for the LBS to throw in the towel, there by ending the M. Just something to keep in mind.
It does take for us to push through & put the "hurt" to the side. More than anything, it seems the OP issue is the toughest to deal with & there appears to almost always be one in the picture, even, as OT says, the ones that are mended/mending.