Morgan- I am so sorry for your pain. BUT- I have to wonder if this isn't a good thing in the way of detaching. I understand (completely) your financial concerns. Please check out my thread/post about God and 2x4s. Do you think this can apply to you, too?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing