I don't really know if either of us is DBing. He wants to make the marriage work, but I am so unhappy with what he has done and now with what I have done. There are no children - so that makes things a tad bit easier. I just came here to see what others were doing and have a place to be heard really. We are going to individual counseling now because our last two attempts at marriage counseling did not work. He ended up emailing nasty things to women again even after we went. I guess I am doing this for ME, but I miss him like hell.
I do plan to stay away from OM, but unfortunately I still see him a lot in the community. Makes things tough.
Me and H just went to church this morning. Talk about difficult. But I figure we need to start somewhere....I just don't know how I feel about our marriage right now - but I want to believe his changes are for real.
