It was when *I* was fully ready to move on, to let H go, that he started to recommit
SD tells us what we're coming to learn ourselves.....WAS's take on a "dog like" quality where they sense fear, or that we're not fully letting go, even if it's incredibly subtle.
Following up your last session where your detachment was reveled with a trip away with the kids will give her a chance to imagine herself as the outsider. Someone not included in your life, and the possibility that you may even share it with another women at some point. I think a WAS doesn't do this until the focus gets away from thinking that you're safely on the shelf, if & when they should want you again.
Keep up the great PMA Nomo, your picnic is attracting a lot of attention.
