Hope, I wouldn't send the letter. I think our husbands are so much alike. They believe they are entitled to their newfound "happiness". They have no remorse. I believe if you send the letter it will just make you appear needy. He will see it as a "poor pitiful me" letter. I've heard of people writing letters like this and then burning them or burying them as a sybolic gesture that this stage of your life is over. I think maybe this is what you should do. I know how bad you are hurting, believe me. I want so bad for my H to wake up and feel bad for what he has done to me and our family, but he is not there. Hopefully, out husbands one day will arrive at that point, but until then we have to be strong and live for ourselves. Do it not only to show your husband that you are a strong woman, as I know you are, but also do it for yourself. When he wakes up you may be there for him or you may have found the man of your dreams. It will be his loss if he waits too long.
Kim
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
