Your H is a complete A$$! How can he for one second blame you for his actions of having an A. Did you go out and find some tramp for him to sleep with and force him to do it. I think not. What a spineless turd. If you ask me a man like that is not worth fighting for. You deserve better and there is some one better out there for you.

I really fell crushed for you. To me there is nothing harder to deal with then your S involved in an A. It is the cowards way out. Stay strong and do not accept any of the blame he is trying to put on you for his actions.


“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED”
“You have to have a life to share a life with someone”
“When you stop resisting, you start learning”

M15yrs
Divorced 07/07