Originally Posted By: 789
So what I think I am saying is that she probably is enjoying herself when the 3 of you are together, and then when the day/evening is about to be over she does get "cold", she could just be realizing what she is missing.
Just let her have her time and space, enjoy the time together but don't worry about how she acts, especially if it is that way only at the end of spending time together, enjoy the time she is happy.


That is kind of the way I view it also. I am not letting it bother me to much, I just kind of let it slide and instead think of the great couple of hours we just spent together, not the 30 seconds of her being cold. I am just trying to understand it a bit. That's all.

I am doing just as you suggested and giving her her space. I usually call her on Sat & Sun to talk to son (also an excuse to talk to her) and I did not call her yesterday and do not plan on calling her today.


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