The thing about kids is that you cannot hide what is going on or shelter them.
They are very smart.
From the very beginning my H admitted to the A but kept it up.
He certainly seems to be a one of a kind in that he has never introduced the kids to OW and also, he and OW do nothing except go out to dinner once in awhile. I know this to be true and he has no $$$ to wine her and dine her.
I do not worry about his taking the kids out because I know he would never bring her around or have her meet them somewhere.
He has never said he wants them to meet her either and she has never said she wants to meet them that I know of.
I feel for all of you whose spouses have introduced your kids to the OP because I do not think it is right at all. Of course, the MLCers are not in their right minds either.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19