Lastnight, W was reviewing her course syllabus and approx every hour she would come out side and say 'Im already overwhelmed.' I told her to be patience since its only the beginning of the semester. W asked if I would help her with an assignment. My first answer would be to call EA and ask him to help. Since I am not in a R with you, why should I care?
Well, that wasnt my answer and I told her I would be delighted in doing so. I told her since I have 2 computers with 2 different versions of Office the assignment can be easily done. W went to bed and I didnt stayed up too late since I knew she was a little tired and I didnt wanted the TV to bother her since she left the bedroom door open.
This morning we had breakfast and I asked her if she would alter some new pants I bought. W said she wont so I said its OK. Then again I thought well if she's like that why should I do her assignment. Then W said that she will do it this morning and later she gave me the assignment to do which I am currently working in since she went to Walmart for a few things.
This is what I dont get, she wants to be away from me, throws all those negative comments at me and now is leaning on me for her education assistance. Does not this show that if I can assist her with this task why cannot we try and work out the M & R. This shows that we are both putting interest in her education which is a goal for her and the same effort can be put into the rebuilding of the R.
Perhaps she is so caught up in anger, hate and misery that she isnt thinking and seeing that I am able to do a lot more than she think I can and I am supportive for both her career and education. Sometimes I think I should not do anything for her but again I do it since I know its the miniscular things that makes the R different and makes the W think differently.
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...
