Hi Jackson!

I can see how confusing this is for you. The way I would look at it is this.....it is what it is. Hard, yes? And that just sucks.

So..what now? Well, I think you should focus on YOU and where you want to go! She is going to go down this path no matter what you do. She will most likely realize that this is a mistake some day. The question will be...where are you? If you keep moving forward, you will be at a better place than you are today and only than can YOU CHOOSE what you want.

How tough to be w/o your kids that long! That is too long, I agree w/Tom. Any options?????

Glad to meet you Jax! Wish it was under better conditions, but we are all here to support each other!

Hijack to Jazzy.........

Your thread is locked...start a new one b/c I have some input \:\)


Me-BS 38
X-WS 36
Separated 11/15/2006
Filed for D 8/1/2007
Divorce Final 12/21/2007
S13, S13 (twins), D9
Married 13 Yrs
Together 20 Yrs