well the health has improved a ton. i ended up at the doc's and hospital wed-fri getting more tests and now my arms look like a users needle tracks. haha. no smoking, no drinking and feeling great. i'm going to get out today and do a little physical activity.
fil is in town and this is when w said she would file. i typically watch s from sat morning until sunday afternoon. well w called friday and asked if i was well enough to watch him, if not fil would like to. i told her that fil came a long way to see him and i didn't feel all that great, so let fil have time with him. then w seemed genuinly concerned and asked about the health issues. then i asked how fil visit was going, and she ran down their events for the day and then told me where and what they were doing that night. which is back to her filling me in on her life. sort of odd.
there wasn't much time to fit in a lawyer appointment but there is still monday. w would have mentioned it though as well. i'm wondering if she is not ready or just can't talk about it. not sure, and not sure what to think about that.
absolutely no contact yestereday and no real need for contact until tuesday, so imagine unless she goes to the attorney tomorrow i won't hear anything until then.