morgan, I am glad to see you this morning. I knew it would be a long, dark night for you. I wonder how your exchange will be with H.
I don't think you should think of your marriage as 'over', just yet. I really don't. Your H was very emotional last night as well, because he doesn't know what he wants. I understand the 'closure' things are you doing (rings, letters), and those things you might need to do. But maybe there is still some hope, if you want H still.
The working out image and getting over our H's is a really good comparison. I totally get what you mean about doing all this GAL stuff, going through the motions even when we didn't want to, all to try and change ourselves FOR our marriage. The realization that it might not work out is very hard to deal with.
I will be thinking of you today and hoping you can have a great day with your kids.
I wanted to say that I would be so SICK and UPSET if I found out that my H had someone watch the kids so he could go on a date. I totally understand that. He was trying to protect you, sure, but he still did it. Fog, I tell you. FOG
