Our situations are similar reecegirl. Well the beginning of our 'demises' are. I had the 'good' job, worked a lot and he supported me, But apparently I became unavailable at home. I knew we were bumpy, but didn't know how unhappy H was, and he had an A too. Here's where you and I are different though, H is still unsure about me, and is still in communication with OW. I am so glad that you guys can give it a shot. And I totally agree, don't hide your feelings. You are entitled to them (just express them calmly) just as he is entitled to his.

What a bummer about the talking in his sleep thing. \:\( What a way to start a day. I am so sorry. I also hope things work out with your kids. Keep us posted.