reecegirl, my H gets all cold and defensive after discussing the things he has done. Its so unfair! And at least your OW didn't know he was married and did the moral thing when she found out. H's OW was MY friend from our kids playgroup and then went after my H, and continues to see him/call him, even at my D5's new school, they have eaten lunch together.
mkultra and sorrydog, How awful that they aren't reachable for their own kids. Avoiding guilt much? That's so unfair. SD, I totally agree that all of our kids deserve so much more, especially your teen daughter. I hope you have a nice breakfast this morning, and all you can focus on is that YOU aren't giving up, you are stepping up for your kids, and in the long run, your kids will see this.