Here's a question I've got because it keeps coming up and I need to know the DB way of handling it. My wife keeps saying things like, "If we divorce you would be snapped up in two seconds". I know that she's trying to comfort me and feel better about the sitch herself. But it feels like a hot knife through butter on my heart. What do I say? If I say I would never divorce you (how I feel) then it wouldn't be very DB. I'm sure others have had this conversation with their WAS. My typical response is "I love you and don't want to think about others"
I know that there's probably a better thing to say I just don't know what it is. Ideas?
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates