1) Change nothing and continue to b!tch about your wife's drive. Very Likely.
Well...at least that's an honest answer CeMar. Now, my question to you is this....if you feel that it is a likely possibility that you will continue to do this...then WHY ARE YOU HERE? You can't just change one thing, or even two things (further down in your post), you have to try different things. BUT, if as you state yourself it's more likely that you will change nothing and just continue to bitch then you are going to have to reconcile yourself to the fact that NOTHING WILL change, and if YOU are not going to change things....then quit bitching about it, because you can effect change if you really desire change to come about. Many people have.
I continue to hold fast to my opinion that YOU are the problem here CeMar. Your air of neediness and entitlement is very unattractive to a woman...to be quite honest it's a huge turnoff. I find it very difficult to believe that what I see here, this neediness and entitlement, does't come through at home....and if it does, that in itself is a sexual repellant, it will kill that spark of desire that she may have. I have been in relationships, heck even in my current one...where I may feel horny, and even be getting ready to initiate something...or in the middle of it, and my H's attitude will just flat out kill that spark...dead, the desire gets snuffed right out. I find it very possible that this is something that is occuring in your own marriage...and it is something YOU have control over, because it's something YOU emit. It's kind of the greenhouse effect in your marriage...only YOU are the one emitting the noxious gases that make that sexual/desire void grow in your marriage...resulting in a changed climate (not even taking into consideration the REAL changes a woman's body goes through as she ages.)
Oh, and you wanted examples of men that have effected change in their marriages with LD wives...they've been cited to you time and again. It doesn't bear repeating because you CHOOSE to believe it cannot happen, so for you...it won't.
