Do you now wonder what you saw in the OM? yes, this OW is making big plans as well. When my H came back the last time he told me that she wanted to buy a house and that they had spoke of marriage. He conveyed this information in a teenager in love way, wanting my support and approval. Do you think if you hadn't of hit rock bottom you would have returned?
Due to his assertions now about what she wants I am protecting myself and my children by seeking to have a legal separation. Initally my H ignored, so my Lawyerwrote a very tough legal document to get him to face reality. Then the spew began. The OW wrote letters to my Lawyer saying everything had already been decide, everything was amicable then escalating to go ahead file for divorce. The spew included, I guess I have to move on, your done,to I told you I was your friend I would take care of you,to an utter disbelief on his part that anyone could percieve him as not having mine and the kids best interest at heart. I stood my ground keeping to my boundaries, trusting in God, letting go and letting God. I let my lawyer represent mine and the kids interests all the while letting him know that the doors were not closed. Yesterday I get a texted message " just a heads up I want you to have all proceeds from sale of our house for your new house." Now I don't understand. The only thing that makes any sense is the only phone conversation I had with him in 4 months was last Monday where in response to him telling me he doesn't have any money I told him that I had put him on the deed to the new house and I had not changed my will. He seemed to relax. How do you know the contact they are making with you in genuine?
