1) Change nothing and continue to b!tch about your wife's drive. Very Likely. 2) Change nothing and be resigned to not getting the sex you want. I may be resigned to not getting the DESIRE I want no matter WHAT I do. 3) Stay married to your wife and get a lover. Violates my religious beliefs so highly unlikely. 4) Stay married to your wife and buy sex. Sex is not the problem, DESIRE is the problem, so buying sex would do nothing for me. 5) Divorce your wife and seek a relationship with a woman that has a higer drive. Remember though, that this high drive woman may indeed someday change . . . just like your wife did. Again, against my religious beliefs. 6) Take a very hard look at yourself and see if there is something about you or your behavior that is compounding the sex issue. Are you doing something that is causing this reaction with your wife. If you find something . . . change it. I have change lots of things and nothing has changed. The problem is that most LD is caused by MULTIPLE problems, not just relationship problems. 7) Realize that you are both older and perhaps sex just isn't going to play the same role in your married life as it once did. In other words, my marriage will never be any good. Highly likely.
