If you are unhappy, you raise your hand and say so. You do not cross the line again.
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if only, all our heartbreaks would've never happened, I bet she, like my H thought she'd leave enough "hints" or that you should've realized it by then.

I hope she is truly decides to get off her drug aka affairs. A book I highly recommend is "Healing the hurt in your marriage"

And let me congratulate you on being a superb father and on thinking of your children, they have an awesome dad.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.