======================= I have now and then started leaving out some of the books I have been reading to let him see some of them ================ repeat after me "men don't take hints" so dont' expect much. If anything, sometimes when we'd argue my H would say "are you getting that from those books you read?".
------------------------- I guess we are still at the place we can't talk about things, unless he brings it up first. Well, I will just watch what I say. --------------------------- choose your battles, I know I know, there are somethings we think we had to know (didn't but wanted to ask my H how many times he went to ow when he said he had court) SO what if it was 3x a week against the 2x I thought. It doesn't make his sin any bigger nor worse. So, if you must, ask questions that will promote healing in some way, somethings aren't worth asking hon.
============================== Earlier I asked him is he was wanting to sell our house when our S was grown up ========================= Their logic was screwed up, and men in that phase don't think far ahead nor realize the repercusions of their acts. DUring our first S I found a note from my H that said he wished he didn't have kids... it's beyond me how anyone can say that, but I will never bring it up because then he had sh*t for brains. Me, I'd die for my kids.
If time allows, I'll force my sister to put dark red highlights on my hair hope you had a good eve hon))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
hope you had a good eve hon))))))
