if you think he is leaving in Oct, now is the perfect time to get a life and prepare for "d day". In the mean time hes got a few months to prove that he really wants to stay. Its a win win. If he really stays you have your marriage back and an opportunity to make things stronger. If your right and hes just waiting till october then you will have GAL and have started to get things in order for that day. It will be a fine line to walk, but possibly well worth it.
