Hi and welcome. I am sooo not the one to give good advice (I need some of my own!) but wanted to say hi to you. Its been a rocky year for you guys. I don't think H would have much to say about your affair (at least on the outside). Was this friend married as well? If you want this marriage, its good that he wants to try and make it work. As you will find, many of us have a spouse that doesn't want to try at all. I think you guys would benefit from some good counseling. Can you ever trust him again? Forgiving is one thing, but forgetting is the hard part.
