Oh morgan! I am so glad I came on tonight (almost went straight to bed when I got home). Sometimes there are times for a blow out. Things have to come to a head, especially when one person is sucking it up-us. And the other person is in denial, and doesn't want to talk about it at all because it reminds him of what he has become. I think you handled it totally well. And sometimes you need to have answers or at least hear what he has to say. And boy, you did hear it, huh? I can't be sorry enough. Man, our weekends have sucked haven't they? \:\( You told him the most important things, that you don't want this, but you won't take it anymore. You did everything right, I am just so very sorry how hurt you got in the process. I'll be thinking of you tonight.