Do I want him back?

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FYI: In my situation, we are not talking about someone w/mild mental illness. Anorexic and UNTREATED bipolar. Couseling center refused her for her lack of cooperation at one point. In and out of institutions. Suicide attempts. BP is NOT mild from what I understand. (I have a good friend who is BP and the way H talked about OW makes friend look mild.)

What concerns me is that I suspect H lets her into the house. The other concern I have is that her extended family is "out to get" her.

The other stupid thing I think H might try to do is teach her to drive. This worries me because the LAST thing I need is to wind up with a lawsuit from H allowing her to drive his car.

DB counselor suggested mediation as a possible option. I like the idea. The next time we reach an impasse, that's the idea I will present. And frankly, it worries me enough that I think I will file LS if he refuses to go.