I think you did well. I can not see how anyway could not lose it when faced with dealing with another person involved with your spouse. He needs to know how you feel and you need to stand up for yourself. Do not let him him bully and try to belittle you. He is only doing it to justify his actions with OW. What a dog!
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
