Well, I should have listened to Scott. I got hurt again. I am wasting my time with my H. He is going to end this marriage in 1 week and he can't even give me one lousy day in which OW's leash isn't attached to him.
It all started with me texting him to see when he was going to be here to get his stuff. I thought this is the last time that we will see each other before our court date on 8/28...maybe just maybe he would want to talk to me after the email he sent last week. Well, he is on his way out here and he has OW with him. Do the hits ever stop? I guess when I am not married to this sorry excuse of man maybe they will. He can't even get away for one day to come pack up his sh$t and talk to his wife one last time. This is how it went. H: I'll be out tonight but not alone. M: What does that mean? no response M: If that means ow is with you just get the hay. I don't need to see you. If you can't take one day alone to come here, you can get the other stuff on your birthday. H:Do you need to be there for me to get the hay? M:I will probably be here, so I would appreciate if OW doesn't come with you. Call me before you come. Thanks a lot for making me feel like I'm not worth 1 day when I gave you 11 years.
I just couldn't help myself. He has treated me like sh$t for the last 10 months, and he doesn't even have the decency to take a day to come over to my house and pack up his stuff without hiding OW at someone else's house while he does it. I was nice to him for so long for a couple of reasons....because I am a nice person, I always thought things might work out, I didn't want to hurt myself in the Divorce. Well, things are not going to work out. This was the last time we were going to see each other before our court date and he can't even come alone. The papers are signed, so I don't have to worry about the D any more. I am still a nice person, but I am done with him.
