How should you act? I don't know, really. I feel funny around my W too; especially when she's being flirty. It makes me uncomfortable because I always wonder what the motive is behind it.
I do things for her, such as helping her order the computer. I can sit beside her and watch TV for a while with her and make small talk. I don't know. I just feel really strange around her I guess because of the same reasons as you.
It's like someone literally hitting you upside the head with a 2 X 4 out of nowhere and then telling you, "Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't mean for that to hurt you so bad. Can we still be friends?" Of course, if you agree to still be friends, you flinch every time they make a sudden move.
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