Not totally caught up on your sitch, but I just wanted to make one comment.
It was when *I* was fully ready to move on, to let H go, that he started to recommit. Literally...the weekend I was contemplating moving on in the form of dating a friend who could have been much more, H stepped it up.
As long as you are focused on YOU and what YOU want and acting on those things instead of fear or W or whatever, there are no wrong actions. We must be true to ourselves in the end.
Good luck!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
