Just checking in. Not much new to report. Been a long week w/the beginning of school.
ONe of my boys had a really bad time this week. He tends to feel responsible for H's feelings etc. He didn't want H to be alone one night and was making himself go stay, but really didn't want to. He said H would make him feel guilty (I take you to do fun things and you'll go, but won't come stay w/me???). Ross broke down and sobbed for about 1/2 hour. He's not an emotional kid and this was a HUGE thing for him. He told me that he didn't like the person H was now and missed his old dad. Told me that he HATED being at H's house. Broke my heart.
H has been very kind to me these past few days. Even bought me something at the grocery that he knew I would love! I didn't like it which just shows how he doesn't really know me
Anyway....off to get my kiddos!Hope everyone is doing well!
Me-BS 38 X-WS 36 Separated 11/15/2006 Filed for D 8/1/2007 Divorce Final 12/21/2007 S13, S13 (twins), D9 Married 13 Yrs Together 20 Yrs
hey bam. Sorry to hear your son is having a tough time. But he has a great mom.
I'm still looking!!!
IMP
Hi IMP! Thank for those kind words! Today, I feel an overwhelming sense of being the only stable person in my kid's lives. H just is soooooooooo crazy and doing things that don't make sense. The kids look to me to make sense of it. It's so hard to help them work through things w/o saying mean things about H. I won't do it...never have and never will. But, I just am really angry at what our kids are going through right now.
So, what's on your agenda today? I'm heading to the new house to work in the yard. They ran ducts to the upstairs for heat/cooling this week and also have most of the upstairs drywalled! It's coming along and I'm getting excited about moving in!
Thanks for checking in IMP! You have been one constant for me through this craziness! You'll never know.....
Me-BS 38 X-WS 36 Separated 11/15/2006 Filed for D 8/1/2007 Divorce Final 12/21/2007 S13, S13 (twins), D9 Married 13 Yrs Together 20 Yrs
