OK so how should my behavior be? Should I be pissed? should I be nice? should I make small talk, laugh and joke with her? should I show her I'm her friend? I'm totally confused. I don't think I'll ever be her friend, especially when other people are involved or maybe it'll be different when I do move on. Right now I feel blindsided and betrayed.

She came over this morning to pick D up so I could go to my dentist appointment. She was being her usual self, making small talk etc. I asked her where she was going to take D so I could pick her up later...she sheepishly, flirtingly said 'I was gonna go get a donut, then we'll go to xyz place' - so I told her 'ok go get your donuts fatty' jokingly, she said 'i'm not a fatty, I'm fluffy' and started laughing...she's not fat, she goes to the gym but she has gained some weight around her belly over the last year or so. Anyway, so its hard to believe that she's the same person that could be hurting me and our D.

Last edited by StupidRomeo2; 08/18/07 08:15 PM.
Me: 32|W: 34|D: 3yo
1st bomb: Feb 2006 (left one day, came back a week later)
2nd bomb: Aug 2006 (moved out, ILYBNILWY)
3rd bomb: Apr 2007 (filed for divorce)
4th bomb: <her finger on the launch button>