Braveheart,

I agree with you 100 percent on the no contact comment. It is the only thing that works for me. No matter what I do, H finds something negative about it.

Me: 45
H: 43
Married: 19 years
Dated 05 years
Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"

Kids: 16 (s)
13 (d)
2 (d)

"If god is for us, who can be against us"