Are we piecing yet?

[Have Faith]

EM and Lwb Thank you for your input. People who don't understand divorse busting just think we are stupid and pitiful people. I'm so glad I have this forum.

H doesn't want to sleep somewhere else, but I had told him that I need to start detaching from him as we are getting too close. I am the one who told him to move out.

As for the OW, I'm not sure what is going on. I have not been snooping much. He calls her on his secret cell for a very short period of time on the week-ends (1 to 2 minutes). If he calls on that phone during the week it has only been once a week. He can call her from his work phone, so I don't know how much they talk. I believe that he e-mails her everyday. I don't know for sure. He does go to the gym where she worksout. He could go to mine, but hasn't. In the past he would go to my gym for a week and then it was back to her gym. I think these were the times he was trying to break it off with her, but couldn't.

Last night he came over and I made dinner. He spent the night. He was cuddly, but no sex yet.

This morning when he left for his Saturday job, he told me that he would be busy all day, but would call me later. Did not mention our usually dinner date. He did say that he would be going to church with me on Sunday. He hasn't done that for a couple of years. This is GOOD. I asked God to prepare a special message for him tomorrow (he, he!). He also said ILY when he left. That is the second ILY this week. If I hit three in one week, then I'm buying a lottery ticket.

I have an other option for tonight if he doesn't mention dinner and I think I will do that if we don't go out. That way if he calls me or comes by, I won't be here.

I think that right now he is about 90% back, but just can't let go of that 10%. If he sleeps over at friends house during the week, and then at home on the week-ends, he feels like he can still have the 10% going on. I think that it will only take him worrying about me going out to actually get him back home and 100% committed.

Everyone have a good week-end and thanks for your input.

Faith