Originally Posted By: trekker

will being at another wedding cause him to reflect on us? when my H professes to be so very happy, is that true?

My H went to the wedding of a couple of our friends in January. A wedding that I would have been going to as well. Weeks later I found photos of him and OW at this wedding, looking like they were having the time of their lives. Frankly, I think it's incredibly poor taste to take someone who is not your spouse as your date to a wedding. Kind of spitting in the face of the whole concept IMO, though no one else (all of them people I had considered my friends as well) in any of the wedding photos seemed at all disturbed by it.

It wasn't long after this wedding that H sent me the, "I'm seeing someone new" email.

As for your H texting you when he's meant to be off on a romantic getaway with OW, I dunno what to make of that, but surely it's some kinda good sign that you're still on his mind?

Last edited by Ophelia; 08/18/07 06:06 PM.

Me:30
H:30
Together:10yr
H left:Oct3'06,couple weeks before 5th wed anniv.
No Kids
OW bomb:Jan19'07
My thread: He filed.