hellkat I appreciate your message. That is what I like about the people on the boards, we are all like family and look out for each other.
I know she is not trying to butter me up. The invites and the calls etc. have/had been occurring weeks prior to her knowing that she needs to move. There is no hidden agenda, with her actions. But, I am not sure what her intentions are for moving back in. But, I will definitely need to know before if she does so.
She has made some changes. For 6 months I have tried to get my wife to include me more in her life. Trying to get her to call me on occasion when she leaves work, invite me do go out to do things with her, talk to me able the little things in life. More or less treat as well as she treats her friends and not like a stranger. We have been separated for 6 weeks now and things between us have improved greatly. I was afraid when we separated the only time I would see her or have communication with her was to exchange our S. But, oddly enough she has been inviting me to go out to eat, go to the movies, go to the park, go shopping etc. She has begun to call me on her drive home from work. We are having conversations about the little things in life. She is now filling my request to be treated as well as she treats her friends. Funny thing is she is starting to neglect her friends and is spending most of her free time with me and our son.
I would not (hopefully) move back in together until we have addressed the issues that tore us apart. I do not want to move back in to the same situation.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
