Do I want him back?

[forward]

Well, I spoke w/DB counselor. I have a lot o freasons to be worried. OW is bipolar and I think she's been in the house. Also OW's mother is mentally ill and supposedly threatens OW. (This is where H is just pathetic in taking advantage of situation.)

I have, however, begun to suspect that H is unipolar (depressive) if not actually bipolar himself.

DB counselor suggested meeting with a mediator to discuss practical issues of insurance, D1.5 care and so on. Mediators can be counselors. I thought this was a good suggestion.

I also want the opportunity for H to see that legally speaking, he would be required to offer more care and pay more CS if we D.

I don't think this will draw us closer together but I continue to worry about D1.5 and possible ill effects of OW on my life, so I consider that to be something that needs to be discussed. Having a counselor there (note that this is not MC) would help to resolve issues.