prodigalwife, everything you said sounds so very familiar! The soulmate theory all of it. Went through that 2 years ago.
Guess my question is...how did you show your husband you truly were sorry for what you did? My H "yelled" his apology at me...and somehow I am not finding sincerety in that. Since this was what I got for an apology...I am having an extremely hard time getting "past" what happened.
My H has shown some good faith...but my question is...and he "won't" answer it..."How does a person just go from being garbage (meaning me...) tossed off to the side with no thoughts or regrets...to the "Love of H life" in a mere 10 days?" I asked him this right after his A ended with OW...suddenly he loved me blah blah blah. As far as I am concerned...I won by "default"...thinking she dumped him.
I would put my thread in but was 2 years ago I was on here non-stop...