What stuff is going through our spouse heads ?

[NoDirection]

It is amazing reading this thread. It is the same things that I have struggled with through all of this. My wife honestly seems as if she is bi-polar. One minute she wants absolutely nothing to do with me and the next minute she can not stop talking to me about anything and everything.

She ahs told our friends that I have gone out and left her at home. That because she doesn't want to come so she volunteers to stay home with our son. There are other times where I go out and take my son with me, but that fails to get mentioned. She has always wanted to control things and not lose that. I feel she lost that with me and is now controlling the OG she is with and once that wears thin on him I am sure he will bounce. I am curious to see if it is before or after I have called things out as well...