Basically I feel like I am rushing through my life but not accomplishing anything. Does this sound like ADD? The symptoms I've read online don't jump out at me and resonate so much. I don't think I'm really disorganized with my belongings (I rarely lose things, for example), but I think my *head* is a jumbled mess.
Another book recommendation -
Women with Attention Deficit Disorder: Embrace Your Differences and Transform Your Life by Sari Solden.
ADD in girls/women goes undiagnosed because it manifests itself in different ways (the physical hyperactivity is less common). I am of the opinion that the hyperactivity in women shows up in their thought processes.
It hasn't been medically researched (info gathered via surveys and self-reporting), but there is a possible link between hypersensitivity and ADD. Here's a link to an article - HERE and another here - The Princess and the Pea
"Basically I feel like I am rushing through my life but not accomplishing anything. Does this sound like ADD? "
It can be, it can also be a result of being a SAHM - where every day can be filled with activity, but there's no shiny new "product" to point to at the end of the day.
Go through the checklists and see if it gives you a more complete picture. Keep in mind that every category probably won't apply, or if it does, it can be in a not-so-obvious way.