...and just a little more to yesterdays story that may shed a little more light on WHY I was so down...

....starting senior year in high school I dated a guy and we ultimately went out for about 6 years...when we broke up, he started dating a girl (and ultimately married, although now divorced) and in an ironic twist of fate, XSO's new OW's name, which is a highly uncommon name to begin with, just so happens to be the same name of the girl my other ex married.

I was really down - felt it was some kind of cosmic joke. Both of my exes go out with girls with same name. And yeah - I admit it was kind of stupid to think that way, but when you're down, you're down.

But, I've gotten back up.