If ya come to Califonia ya have to let me know because After all we have been through married or not I owe you a real hug.
You got it.
Andy,
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She would have to really change and re-committ 100% before I ever let her hurt me again. I am still working on a great friendship with her, and will continue to build it for our DD's sake, and who knows what may eventuate.
That's exactly how I feel. H is the one that has to change. I've done everything that I could. Differently than you though I am not working on a friendship with H...we will not be friends after we D. It is too hard on me. We do not have children, so I am hoping for a clean split and we will go our separate ways. When we meet in the future, I will be cordial, but we won't be friends and I have come straight out and told him that and his response was...That makes me sad, but I wouldn't want to be my friend either.
I had a great time out last night. A bunch of my co-workers and I celebrated our exams that we passed. We had a lot of fun and a little too much to drink. Okay, so I think I might be treading in a little too dangerous of water with a coworker. He is a single, nice, sweet, intelligent, decent looking guy. He is a lot like me and the total opposite of H. He knows about my sitch, but doesn't know any details and we have never discussed it. He, I, and another one of my girl friends from work stayed out together longer than everyone else. I could definately see this going somewhere in the next couple of months, but I know there are a lot of red flags....coworker, me just getting divorced, etc. Any advice? Should I be really careful or just a little cautious have fun and see where this goes? Is this just me being desperate to find someone? I really don't think that's what it is. He seems like the type of great guy that I'm hoping to find.
